I grew up in the shadow of a hundred churches.
OK, maybe not literally, but my hometown of Keystone
Heights, Fla., did used to hold the world record for most churches in a square
mile.
At a young age, I was familiar with the term “the liberal
media” – a radical group of people who couldn’t get anything right. It sounded
like all the newspapers were out to get the conservatives, and there was no way
of redeeming the situation. The media was a lost cause.
But in college, I made an important distinction that began
to define not only the way I see the media, but also the way I deal with
conflict and listen to others.
Opinions belong on the opinions page.
I realized the things that typically brand newspapers as
liberal are columns or editorials in the opinions section. These one-sided
pieces are sacred places where people can say whatever-the-heck they want.
People are entitled to their opinions. You don’t have to agree, but that’s kind
of the beauty of it. They still get to talk.
The opinions section is NOT to be confused with the news
section, and that’s where a lot of media-consumers go amiss.
The news section is the sacred place where opinions get
dropped at the threshold and we can discuss things from a nonjudgmental
perspective as adults. We can let both sides talk and hear them out.
I’m not saying every news writer can check their bias at the
door when they write a news story. What I am saying is that objectivity is the
point and the beauty of journalism, even though a lot of reporters miss the
mark.
With that said, be careful who and what you listen to. The
voices you listen to will grow to define you. They can make you bitter,
paranoid and resentful. Or they can make you better informed, wiser and well
rounded. It all depends on how you process what you hear.
My plea to you is to ask questions. Please, before you judge
a message, an article, a speech, a group, a person, ask these questions. Who is
saying this? What is the source? Are they talking about a matter of fact or of
opinion?
Before you close yourself off from someone whom you disagree
with, please ask, “What insight can I take away from this?” Because even when
you disagree with someone, you can still learn something valuable about them or
about the issue from a discussion.
The liberals aren’t bad. The conservatives aren’t evil.
They’re not the problem. They just have opinions and feelings and share them
forcefully. It’s our job as media-consumers to listen to what they say and to respond
logically before we respond emotionally.
Every now and then when I visit my hometown, I’ll run into
an old family friend, and they’ll ask how life in the newspaper business is
going. “Are you keeping the liberal media in check?” they’ll more-than-likely
quip.
When that happens, I just smile, and I say, “I’m doing my
job.” Because keeping the liberal media, or the conservative media, or anything
else in check isn’t my job.
My job as a reporter is to ask the right questions about the
people and information I’m presented with.
It’s not much different than your job as a media consumer.
Be mindful of the voices you’re listening to, and ask the
right questions.
It seems like we're very often conditioned to react first and think never - but the truth is, if thinking deeply about your views shakes them, they probably needed to be shaken. I think it comes down to wanting Truth more than wanting to be right.
ReplyDeleteCouldn't agree with this more! Beautifully written!
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